1. My husband was stationed here at Davis Monthan Air Force Base when our daughter was 2 1/2 and we left here when she was 5 1/2. We enjoyed our tour here immensely then but never dreamed we would come back to live here in our "golden years." Life is full of surprises.
2. When our daughter was 20 she had a sudden urge to "move to the desert." I tried to talk her out of it. We were in Virginia (my husband's home state) and planned to stay there. She is a very pale skinned "Iberian Irish" descent with dark hair and blue eyes and was actually allergic to the sun, getting a rash if exposed more than 10 minutes. But she insisted. I finally applauded her decision to be adventurous with her life, and since Russell was in Florida doing some re-training at the time, chose to drive her across country and move her here.
3. The cross-country trip is something I will always treasure. We did make a stop for about a month in Alabama where her grandparents were planning an upcoming move to Virginia. Then, in a car with no air conditioning, we drove across the lower part of our beautiful country in the month of June. It was an incredible sharing time for mother and daughter.
4. The day we arrived, it was scorchingly hot. She had a few second thoughts, but was determined to see this through. We placed her things in a small storage bin, and found inexpensive accommodation in a hostel downtown. THAT was quite an experience for me! Fortunately we didn't have to stay in the dorm section, but were offered a small room for the two of us. We set about looking for work and an apartment she'd be able to afford. I planned to stay through the summer, and was actually the first person to find a job, a summer position at a daycare for special needs kids. Our daughter made friends at the hostel, and was once invited to see a show nearby but decided not to go. That night a young man went to that show who would later become her husband. But they didn't meet then.
5. Later that summer when my husband drove out to pick me up and we headed to Texas to start a job there, we left our daughter in a tiny little apartment with bright orange walls. She was dating a guy that ended up being a little scary, but thankfully we did not get a horrible report of our child being hurt by that man as we were starting our own new life in Texas. She had started work at Elle, a Wine Country Restaurant, which is now located on Campbell but then it was in a neat-looking building on another thoroughfare, and she met there and eventually started dating the man she eventually married. That's why we came here of course, because of their little family...our daughter, son-in-law and grandson. That of course was several years and a few bumpy patches later for them AND us! But, as an interesting aside, talk about people's paths crossing in unexpected ways....when we lived here when our daughter was small, I had a friend and our favorite place to go to lunch was Lunt Avenue Marble Club. It no longer exists, but one day we were all driving around some time after we moved here recently, and I saw the building, which is now a different restaurant. I told everyone how I used to love Lunt Ave. M.C. and it was right there, and my son-in-law said, "Yes, my Mom used to work there." His Mom died young, when he and his brother were young teens, and it was of course very devastating. She had been a single Mom who worked as a waitress to keep her sons fed. She had long dark hair and was very pretty. I felt a chill go down my spine. The time frame was right, and it might just have been that she had waited on me when I had gone there with my friend for lunch. I never got to meet her, but yet, maybe we had spoken just a few words between us, never knowing we would share our children someday with one another, and both be grandmothers of an amazing grandson.
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